Are we done?

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Since Mike and I got married we talked about one day having kids and always thought 3 would be our magic number.  Then we had Eleanor, our beautiful baby girl, and when we decided to try for #2 we had talked about that being our possible last child.  If it was a boy we would be finished, if  another girl we would try for another child.  When we found out we had a bouncy boy we were ecstatic, but a part of me was a little upset, does that mean we won’t have any more kids?

I’ve had a hard time with this question, I would love to have another child, but as our family develops more I feel that we are perfect as we are.  We are working as a team and making plans for our future as a family of 4, not 4 plus 1.  I’ve been the one trying to convince Mike that we should have another, but as I’m coming to Camden’s first birthday I’m realizing that this is it.  Our family is complete and I’m okay with that.

I’m going to soak up the last days of having a baby by watching him crawl around, try to say words, play peek a boo, attempt to walk and give the best smiles and laughs possible, and look forward to other friends and families having babies that I can play with and kiss and hug.

There’s no idea what our future has in store, but I’m good with knowing that we’ll be a family of 4!

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