A Parent to 2

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Since Camden was born I’ve learned a lot about myself as a parent.  Mainly that I can have the same, yet different love for each child.  Something every Mom or Dad wonders about.

I’ve also learned that with the 2nd you’re a little more relaxed.  You’ve done it before and have a better idea what to do.  I can remember rarely leaving Eleanor in the early months, but with Camden I understand that it’s okay to have a little me or mommy/daddy time.

I’ve also been surprised with how little we are using this time around.  With Eleanor I thought we needed all these different items and learned that you only need a few key things so with Camden we started with the basics (swing, crib, changing pad, activity mat and now the bebe pod) and I’ve also omitted the diaper bag altogether.  The only thing I take with me is a changing pad/purse and if we’re going to be out a really long time maybe an extra outfit.  I bring a scarf as a nursing cover, or a cloth diaper/spit rag.  I’ve found that a backpack is better than any diaper bag and that as long as there’s a bodega close by we can get more snacks or juice if we need it.

It’s funny how easily we’ve adjusted to being 4.  I can remember it taking forever to get out the door with Eleanor, but now we’ve got it down to a science (there’s still some angry looks and talking sternly to get things moving) but we’re not afraid of doing things like we were before. I’m also getting out of the house with both kids by myself, and doing something other than walking to C-Town.

Being a parent to 2 takes change there’s no doubt about it, and things will be harder, but as long as Mike and I continue to work as a team it makes life sweeter and a little more fun knowing our kids will play, learn, and love each other.  It makes our little life complete, and I wouldn’t have it any other way.

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